I think the wonderful part of spiritual beliefs is that there is not a 'one size fits all' aspect to them. What is it about your belief system that brings you comfort? I know for me, I have found a way to honor ppl who do not share my perceptions (as long as they are perceived to be moral) and feel comfort in attempting to live my life from a compassionate, humanistic, perspective...to me this means my spirituality brings me closer to others with an understanding of each of our imperfections...so to that end, I am deeply religious, although not a structuralist (I do enjoy the traditions and the culture of my religion), and understand that there is more universality across belief systems than differences...please let us know how you are doing, as it is our intention to meet and support each other for who we are...big hugs