Im not usually one to speak about my relationships but this time i think i could do with some opinions.. My boyfriend and i met online, we live about 2 hours away, and we DO love eachother.. so much so that feeling is overwhelming. He is not allowed round my house to stay anymore as my dad wont let him stay due to being jobless and i have had BIG problems with people off the net before (thats why im here) and my dad's just looking out for me but.. Whenever my boyfriend is back home (ive not seen him for nearly 2 weeks now) he barely stays in contact with me.. If i start a conversation with him hes not really interested. He has commitments online, and is working towards some important goals.. so i can understand him being busy, and multi-tasking is not in his vocabulary. Its just in his lack of contact with me ive ended up chatting to one of my brothers friends who im quite sure is interested in me, we get along fine and he offered to drive me to something in london this month as he has worked around there and knows his way (i had asked my boyfriend but i know he wont even remember) and i said... ok i guess. I havnt told this other guy i have a boyfriend, but at the moment he doesn't even act like one. My bf knows im going through a lot and doesn't even check up on me.. Is it wrong that i accept my brothers friends offer, and his company? There are a lot of things i can't say but we have been through a lot together, and my bf also has issues.. So i find it hard to understand what hes doing. Ive told him before that he neglects me when he's home and last time he apologised and accepted he had been doing it again, but hes still doing it.