Ok this might sound selfish but me and my bf have been with each other for a year now. We're gay guys. He won't let me put it in him and he won't put it in me either. Whenever I bring it up he seems to have some sort of story. We do oral but I want to make love with him. A few months ago I came close to cheating because someone wanted to have sex with me and they were up for it. It might sound selfish and for that I'm sorry but I feel like we're mates fooling around sometimes or that he isn't completely attracted to me. I've done stuff to him that he wanted me to do that I'm not comfortable doing but I do it anyway because I like making him happy. But it's a year now and he knows I need sex. I realise sex isn't everything, and he's the love of my life, but I don't want to grow old without sex. Am I wrong for feeling like this? I'm not happy not having sex, or making love. But I don't want to force or pressure him into it either. But a year now. No sex. Anyone relate to this? Probably not because it's a weird situation.