I woke up, my dad asked me what are my plans i said i have no plans yet he asked to update him, i said ok. Few hours laters i talked with my brother and we desided to meet at his place and celibrate my birthday. I came to my dad to update him, and then it started. My dad went postal, he said i have no respect to anyone even not to myself only because i dont want to celebrate my birthday at home. then i said that we can celebrate at home untill 17:30 (2 hours) he said that he dont want it that way, that he want to spend all day on it i told him that because it is actualy my birthday, it is much more intersting for me to go out, he went totaly crazy, saying that i am a worthless shit that our whole fammily is worthless shits, he dont talk with my mom and now i suspect that he will not give me any money to go out today. later my syster and my mom sit and start "celebrating" but it was impossible as my dad insted of joining us, kept sitting on the computer and abusing us "you are all worthless shits that are unable to do shit without me" etc... he done it untill i finished to eat, then i came to open this thread (left the room) my poor mom said that she want to drink poison because he ruined my birthday my dad ignored her, my sys asked him to not ruin my birthday, he told her to shut up and respect him. Then during the time i ate he told me that this is his food and that i must do as he wants because "i must respect him". So.. here is my birthday the day is ruined i have no money to go out and my only wish for birthday is so that my dad will leave me alone for at least one day.