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My boss is a bully and I wish him to fail

Discussion in 'Bullying and Violence' started by rocknrollsuicide, Apr 10, 2008.

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  1. rocknrollsuicide

    rocknrollsuicide Well-Known Member

    Hello there,

    Just needed to vent out my frustration.

    I am working for an on line company, a small business selling provisions on line.

    I have been assigned the rather daunting task to recruit personnel.
    Have recently seen a couple of people.
    One person in particular did strike me as potentially really good for the job.

    Now, to give a little picture of the company's culture: they are most of them,98% of them all males and I along with another girl am the only female. I won't say where they come from: all I can say is that to them women are just as good as slaves to be treated like shit.

    Upon meeting with a rather brilliant candidate today, my boss dismissed my enthusiasm in front of his male peers just for the sole purpose to make me look like an idiot by asking utterly stupid questions about this candidate, treating my like crap downsizing the value of the candidate's CV and my operation.

    This has happened before with other stuff, me showing my boss things that I done, him in the company of his stupid male peers belittling my hard work.
    When we are on a one to one basis he is understanding, full of praise and almost resembling a professional boss.

    I am very tempted to telling him off once for all tomorrow, to let him know he cannot insult my intelligence by belittling me in front of his bloody peers only because I am woman, presuming he can do that just because he is the boss of his fucking company.

    I have no contract, no job description but still I am asked to bring in absurd results which I am trying my hardest to do, not to mention coming up with ideas I should frankly keep to myself. Especially since they have turned out to be very profitable.

    I am so utterly sick and tired to deal with the corporate world.
    It took me a hell of a long time to land a job, my current one with this bully of a fucking boss and now I find myself exactly where I was a year ago.

    I am applying for other positions elsewhere given the little or none consideration I get. I am so fed up with all this shit.

    I wish that wanker of my boss to miserably fail with his false business which, if I wanted to be a real nasty bitch, I could have shut down within a week given the several serious stuff not complying with food regulations and legislations.

    When women get pissed off they are labeled as emotional, on PMT, hysterical, crazy, anything but the positive light a man gets when making his point across in a rather aggressive, pissed off, yelling way.
    I saw it many times. Even a colleague of mine, a guy: he got pissed off really badly with my boss on several occasions all to his advantage. My colleague is treated like an "untouchable" by the male peers.

    Sorry to blurt it all out but I am completely disappointed that things like these can still happen. And always will with certain individuals.

    End of rant.

  2. theleastofthese

    theleastofthese SF Friend Staff Alumni

    I can't blame you for feeling as you do. I imagine I would feel the same if I were treated so badly by my boss. Finding another job would be the best thing for you, as it seems your boss really is an asshole and not deserving of your hard work and dedication. I wish you the best in finding a job where you are truly appreciated!:smile:
  3. rocknrollsuicide

    rocknrollsuicide Well-Known Member

    Thank you Thelastofthese, I so hope I will very soon land a good job when I can be fully appreciated.

    Thank you,

  4. XXXXX

    XXXXX Antiquities Friend

    Yer boss is a d#ckhead.....

    but IME with "bosses" a state of affairs that is not unusual :tongue:

    A small online business? mmmmmmmmm.........

    If it was me I would take his customer and supplier lists and pricing details with me to either a new job and work through them at your leisure, set up on my own (do it right and yer could do this whilst still working for him!) or even send the lists to his rivals (best not to do this the day after you leave!).

    To take the lists you do not have to use computer trickery - print them out enmasse, screen print each and print them out individually or save to a word file - then print out.....or just hand copy them.

    Personally I would look very closely at setting up in competition - yer do not actually have to launch whilst working for him, but he / the firm would be a useful resource whilst creating your business.....as the more info you can "share" :biggrin: the better. Info = Money :biggrin:
  5. Boratz

    Boratz Well-Known Member

    I have been done this before , by making a flyer ,& send them all the town. & I called the owner of the contractor that he is a thief.
    I saw the company sign in astreet of construction ,I come up to the owner & told them, these contractors are thieves. You can assume the rest

    Hit them in their livelihood.

  6. One Dagger

    One Dagger Member

    I know what its like to have a bully as a boss.

    I had an argument with mine today, she is roughly 10 years off retirement i believe? Tries to keep up with whats "trendy" and also tries to seem under control of everything in our department, when in actual fact.. she is far from it.

    I often get ignored even if my ideas and plans are very beneficial, i feel this is because i am very opposite from my boss, im quite young (the fact i look younger than i am makes it worse) im hard working, enthusiastic in certain places, organized and customer friendly. All of which - she is not. I have on a few occassions over the past 2 years spoken up to her about certain issues and we have somewhat resolved them, but its only ever temporary on her behalf.

    I have too been trying to find another job, where i can put my good thoughts and creativity to use, but its not that easy to find the right job in the right location with the right anything...

    Your boss is just an ignorant intollerable asshole who i really feel you need to stand up to, its just a shame his position makes it almost impossible for you to do so.

    Just make sure, when you find something new (and i hope better) that you tell him what a shallow peice of work he is and where he can stick his job:wink:
  7. Boratz

    Boratz Well-Known Member

    Hey yo. This is a clue . I can do this for you. I love it I love itI love itI love itI love it to picked on bosses. Yeah baby ,this is my favorite. Chew his/her ass off. I like to pull their balls like a slinky.

    Make funny jokes about their penis . That is the surest way to get their attention & make them respect you. Girl ,you should watch stand up comedy. Most espescially Robin Williams. Girl you are going to be empowered like no bitch in the moon have ever lived.

    This is very serious & I like to empower women more than a man can. Read my posts & see if there is one poster who can beat my ass. Especially little dickheads. I watch a lot of comedy. I mean its my supper every night.

    The best weakness the man has is the little beast in between their legs. This is fact not a question. Target this. Whoever it is ,Ghandi, Muhammad Ali , JC anyone male is subject to this fact. Is he divorced? Is he white? Is he skinny? You gotta improvised jokes around this arena. Call them frogs,basically they all look like frogs don't they? Pot belley, fat frog. Skinny , thin frog. They have no ass literally & physically. Bald? Tell him Costcutters did a wonderful job. Since they have no ass, they reach their pockets over their shoulders. They do that. There is no surgeon to enlarge or shrink their penis. They ask women to have tits job tell them men should get their balls enlarged & color it them like tennis balls,they should glow in the dark so we women can see them better. Tiny balls are hard to find. Tell men ,their pubes are like brillo pads like kissing their mustache is the same way. Its so disgusting. Old men: There is no better way to avoid speeding thicket with an old man on the passenger seat. Most men cannot get a multiple orgasms becoz they have no G spot. Men who are single , they hate their hands. It is a constant reminder to them that prostitute is hard to substitute. They are cheap. Older man just like us have an arthritis. Cannot fuck you by the ass becoz their knees are arthritic.They are all will die of stroke or heart attack.

    Men jerk off within a minute or two. Max is three if you are on top. Call them a minute man. And the juice they produce is Minute Maid. Its not highly on flavor like strawberry. The taste of their dick alone is worst than a dead tree. It stink. Fuck they stink.

    Some men are not ciscumcized. Their dick looks like a snake. Circumsized is no better to look at either. Still a snake wearing a leather jacket without a belt.

    Be careful with a left handed men, be ready when they jerk off , it can get you right eye blind.

    If they use a viagra. Switch the motherfuckers with something like a extra strngth Tylenol PM. So instead of gving you grief, knock them down to sleep. He wouldn't know the difference. And go get yourself a filet mignon stake.

    O my Dog, I can go on & on & on . I adore my father to this day, but he hated my mouth when I talk like this. I hate men who have no respect whatsoever. And in my case it can be mutual but I know I am on the upperhand. The truth is Mother Nature entrusted us with vagina ,breasts & uterus. It is up to us whether we want to let the human species continue to reproduce. The mere fact that men are living creatures they owe their existence from us. Stop the bullshit of Woemn Suffrage. There is no equal rights. We have all the rights.

    Play tennis & aim the motherfuckers in between the legs .
    O I'm sorry. Are you alright? Dickhead. Maybe you should spread your goddamn froglegs a tid bit .

    You will won the tournament easy.

    They are all cheaters too . Another fact . Seduce him & then blackmail the fucker.

    Good luck.
  8. rocknrollsuicide

    rocknrollsuicide Well-Known Member

    Thank you very much indeed One Dagger, I really appreciate it.
    I certainly will tell him what a shallow piece of work he is and where he can shove his job.
    He does not care about his staff, nor about his business for that matter.
    So I won't care about it for him.

    The number 2 I had early this morning has more value than him and all of the bosses around the planet like him.

    Cheers & take care
  9. rocknrollsuicide

    rocknrollsuicide Well-Known Member

    Thank you very much for the advice, this is something I am working on at the moment.
    If it won't be teaching him a lesson at least I would surely do things a hell of a lot better than him and his useless male peers.
    With profits larger than his.
    And that's a promise.

    Thank you
    take care
  10. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    Your boss is pathetic and weak. But I guess that's how guys can be both in the working world and the social world. It's not uncommon to see female employees being belittled by their male bosses infront of other male employees and male colleagues. They are showing off to eachother and also showing that they are men.

    Anyways if this continues then you should definitely put your foot down. Show him that he should not ever under-estimate you.
  11. rocknrollsuicide

    rocknrollsuicide Well-Known Member

    Thank you Mystic.
    It will continue for sure.
    Assholes don't turn angels overnight.
    The evil is in them and stays within them.
    That's his loss and those like him not mine.

    I will move to something else, going back to my creative roots.
    This corporate crap is killing me literally.

    Thank you for the kind words.
  12. rootedphoenix

    rootedphoenix Well-Known Member

    How terrible that he treats you like this. :hug: That's awful. :( I hope you ind a job where you're valued.
  13. rocknrollsuicide

    rocknrollsuicide Well-Known Member

    Thank you rooted and thank you all.
    You only know a tiny portion regarding this bastard & his business peers.
    If you knew the whole story of what goes on in this stupid company (which would be a true success under completely different management and stakeholders), I would probably be advised to get myself a good solicitor and report them straight away to relevant authorities for not complying with lots of stuff (health & safety, food hygiene, taxes, lack of contract, etc)........
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