My Brother John

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by Leiaha, May 12, 2010.

  1. Leiaha

    Leiaha Well-Known Member

    My brother John died on Friday may 7th. I feel so bad. His wife nipped out to the shop, she was gone only 20 minutes, when she came back, he was already dead................... 56yrs old, healthy, full of life!
    I can't get it into my head! I know it's true but I can't cry because I don't believe it!!!
    I am gutted! I feel my depression creeping back. What will I do without my big brother? :cry:
  2. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry for your loss...I understand what you are going through..I urge you to go to your doc and get help ...get some grief counceling as soon as you can..
    here if you need to talk...:console:
  3. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    how shocking for everyone i too hope you have support and are able to see your doctor to get help thru this terrible pain. I am so sorry for your loss
  4. cownes

    cownes Well-Known Member

    so sorry to hear about your loss :hug: if you feel your depression coming back get some help off a doctor asap, get help before it gets too bad :hug:
  5. Leiaha

    Leiaha Well-Known Member

    Thanks everyone, I have already been to the docs. Basically she said it's a case of letting the grieving process happen. I have another appointment next week.
    It's just sooo unbelievable! I always thought we would all grow old and grey. The last one of us I expected to go first was John, he was always soooo full of life =(
  6. ~Claire

    ~Claire Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry to hear about your brother Lea.

    :hug: xx
  7. Leiaha

    Leiaha Well-Known Member

    Thanks Claire :hug: x x x