I don't have words to explain this so please bare with me. I've been with my brother since about 8 am trying to console him. His girlfriend who was just 19 years old died in a car accident early this morning. She was on her way to work to tell them seh couldn't work her next shift because her sister went into labor prematurely and had the baby at 7months pregnant. They are guessing right now that ont he way to work she fell asleep and crossed the median and hit another car head on. From what they say her passing was instant and she felt no pain. Right now Dylan doesn't know. We were having more family come over b/c of holiday weekend and my brother was insistent that they still have them over. Once Dylan knows and understands Laura isn't coming back to him it's oging to be bad. This child has had everyone leave him when it comes to women. This is the fourth female to leave him, by no fault of her own. It was a tragic accident but he is going to be screwed up. I have been tears on and off all day. Granted I had issues iwth my brother and his life but no one deserves this. The pain in his eyes and the pain in his heart is killing me inside. The next few days will be hard and the road to grieving and understanding will be longer. I don't know how to help him other than tell him if he needs anythign I'm here etc. I don't really know how helpful that is. I hope that it will help and in time things will be okay but right now things are a mess.