She announced to us last week that she had a new boyfriend. I should have red flagged it immediately when she told us that he had been in some legal trouble for spray painting. They have dated now for just over a week. This past Friday she came home with a HUGE hickey on her neck. I didnt know what was going on at that time, as I had to hurry and change clothes and get to work for my part time job. It wasnt until later on that night, I found out. Now it get's worse. My daughter received a text message from one of her female friends. This girl is now in college and has a new boyfriend, but used to date the guy my daughter is now dating. That girl told my daughter he is in a gang. Spray painting? Trouble with the cops? Must have been tagging. Now, checked his facebook page. Every other word is fuck. He has been kicked out of his mother's home and had to go live with his grandmother. That Friday night as punishment for the hickey we took her cellphone. there was one, just one text message on it. From her new guy. Basically it stated I am tired of dating girls, just to fuck them. I like you, you are different, blah, blah blah. (talk about a line) This guy is bad news, he is going to use and discard my daughter. And sie can't see it.