• Please read the thread in Forum News and Announcements pertaining to race related discussion on SF - thank you :)

My doctor told me to have a weekend of self care and self compassion....

Champagne

✯✯ Heart of an angel ✯✯
Staff Alumni
SF Supporter
#1
And that is exactly what I'm going to do, does anyone want to join me?

My plan is to listen to songs that will put me in a good mood...

Use face masks to scrub the oils out and pamper...

Going to have a bubble bath with lavender candles, hot chocolate whilst reading a book or magazine...

Order a take-away, nope not cooking, its a treat weekend, so Chinese or Italian it is. Yummmy...

Write a list of things I'm grateful for and will never take for granted...

Sing out loud in the shower as if I'm on MTV...

Chat on SF, have fun and participate in the cafe's and enjoy reading all the answers...

Write a list of my good and positive traits, remind myself I am worthy are self compassion, what are yours?

Spend a few hours on Netflix watching a romantic Christmas comedy, any suggestions on that?

C'mon and join me and be my self compassion buddies, let's do this, this weekend is ours and we are going to own it :)

@Auri @JMG @Baywasp @sinking_ship @HappyKitty @Witty⭐️Sarcasm ⭐️ @KM76710 @bag_of_struggles @extraterrestrialone @Lane
 

Harmony

Well-Known Member
SF Supporter
#3
Girl, count me in. I'm not caring about anything but myself this weekend. It is long overdue! My plans:

◾ Stopping all those negative thoughts, and focusing on what I do have, as opposed to what I don't.
◾Celebrating my past victories and accomplishments and realizing I actually do have some significant assets however MDD continually rears its ugly head to cloud that.
◾Relaxing in the bath with bath bombs galore for hours on end with choice beverages is on the agenda without a doubt! I'll be a prune, it's all good.
◾Cooking? What's that? I plan to kabob it or get Chinese delivery tonight.
*grouphug2 everyone!
 

JMG

~ Crazy Cat Lady ~
#6
does anyone want to join me?

Yes please! :)

Write a list of my good and positive traits, remind myself I am worthy are self compassion, what are yours?

Spend a few hours on Netflix watching a romantic Christmas comedy, any suggestions on that?

I think some of my positive traits are that I am sincere, passionate, accepting, supportive, encouraging, caring and a fairly good listener.

Not sure on a romantic Christmas comedy sorry, but a show I've started watching on Netflix that I think is quite good is The 100. It came out about 6 years ago, it's still airing but anyway I like it so far. Oh another good one on Netflix that only came out last month is The Queen's Gambit, it's only a 1 season show but I enjoyed it a lot anyway.

Tysm! :) ❤ ❤ ❤
 

KM76710

KM stands for Kangaroo Manager
SF Supporter
#7
Good qualities from you: caring, compassion, humor and mirth.

Good qualities from me: What do you want destroyed by me? LOL Serious answers: Honest, straightforward, something brutally so. Although not really empathetic I honestly wish well for others.

Romantic Christmas movie for me: Die Hard which can be a morbid porn movie in another reality.
 

extraterrestrialone

hi, guess who... its me...
SF Supporter
#11
And that is exactly what I'm going to do, does anyone want to join me?
good evening Champagne! i’m having a weekend of self catching up. hoping i can get some self care, compassion and relaxation in too!

to try to achieve that i’m being ultra lazy however my son kept reminding me today that our car lease is up soon and we have to decide what we need to do about it. i hate cars and driving yet i need to do it! taking care very cautiously! i wish i had an old reliable car that never needed maintenance or gasoline!

it’s been a busy week and i so much want a lazy weekend. fortunatley i’m in a pretty good mood. as for i have lavender shampoo!!! close, right? lets see what develops! not to mention my son whipped up a bowl of chocolate pudding a while ago. got a scoop of that!

we may be skipping the take out food but i’m presently thinking of @HappyKitty ’s magenta dragon fruit. hey kitty there’s a white version too, isn’t there? or am i thinking of something else? 🤔.

well, i have been doing lots of my positive affirmations and have been feeling very positive lately. i’m grateful i’m on a good road these days. 😊. BUT, this has been a very busy week in terms of appointments and zoom meetings and the like and i’ve fallen way behind in attending the café! hopefully i’ll be able to catch up over the next couple days.

tonight is star trek night so you can be sure i’ll be watching that and probably some more scifi! 🛸🚀. i think overall this will be a great weekend. that’s what i’m working on. 😎!
 

Witty⭐️Sarcasm ⭐️

§ Eclectic nutbag ©
SF Supporter
#13
And that is exactly what I'm going to do, does anyone want to join me? Yes, of course :D

My plan is to listen to songs that will put me in a good mood... I love listening to music

Use face masks to scrub the oils out and pamper... Oh I haven't used those in forever, sounds nice though.

Going to have a bubble bath with lavender candles, hot chocolate whilst reading a book or magazine... I can't take a bath because I only have a shower stall. But I love lavender and other scented products.

Order a take-away, nope not cooking, its a treat weekend, so Chinese or Italian it is. Yummmy... That sounds so good, now I want takeout!

Write a list of things I'm grateful for and will never take for granted... Friends, family, weather, animals, nature, life.

Sing out loud in the shower as if I'm on MTV... I haven't sang at all in a while, but I should get back into that.

Chat on SF, have fun and participate in the cafe's and enjoy reading all the answers... I love doing this :D

Write a list of my good and positive traits, remind myself I am worthy are self compassion, what are yours? I am kind, caring, giving, loyal, fun, and friendly.

Spend a few hours on Netflix watching a romantic Christmas comedy, any suggestions on that? I know there are a lot of Hallmark romantic Christmas movies, maybe you could watch some of those.
 

Please Donate to Help Keep SF Running

Total amount
$50.00
Goal
$255.00
Top