When I was a child, I had a very strict father growing up who was an abusive, controlling elitist that used to beat me up constantly. My older brother would also attack me when he had psychotic episodes. In school, I was bullied a lot for being a nerd. I was also hyper sensitive. When someone would tell me something unfavorable, I would lose sleep over it. Although I hide it well, it's hard being sensitive in an insensitive world. I went from being happy, naive and innocent to being a misantrophist. As an adult, things didn't fatr any better. I have a dead end job, ive been gaining weight, I'm now 200 lbs. It might not seem like a lot since I'm 5'10 but it's the heaviest ive been in my life. Only weird paraphilias get me off and hinder any healthy relationship. I have a friend but due to conflicting schedules, I am unable to comminicate as much as i'd like. I've also haven't contacted my mom in quite a while making me feel like a real p.o.s. I've also had my heart broken recently by someone. I do have dreams and aspirations but my depression seems to get the best of me. Is there anyone out there that I can talk to?