you don't have to reply, just wanted to get off my chest. my father likes to embarrass me by lying about me in public. he said that i'm too tempermental and indirectly said that i hit my mother. and said that he never hit my mother. my mother got on the phone with me to remind me that my father hit my mother when i was a child. the bruise on her arm was fist shaped. and i still remember that day very well. it's crap like this that is why i will never have children. i will not let another human being be born when i know that pain exists in this world.