My fathers gotten very ill

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by NiceGuYKC, Dec 3, 2012.

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  1. NiceGuYKC

    NiceGuYKC Well-Known Member

    I didn't know where to post this.

    My fathers just been taken to hospital. He's been ill for days.
    He woke up very weak and started throwing up. I'm so worried.
    He's 74 and very stubborn, so he won't give up without a fight.

    Unfortunately I fell out with him around five or six years ago. We barely said a word to each other since.

    I'd just like people to send good wishes his way. So please do, it would make me feel better too.

  2. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    Praying for him hun and for you Perhaps hun you could send him a letter if you can go and see him to let him know you do care ok hugs
  3. Terry

    Terry Antiquities Friend Staff Alumni

    I know it's difficult, but get it sorted now!
    When my father died, and we hadn't fallen out per se, I was left with "why didn't I say this, that, and simply "dad I love you."
    There is a famous quote (which I can't recall verbatim), but the gist of it is, "we regret what we didnt do or say when it's too late".
  4. NiceGuYKC

    NiceGuYKC Well-Known Member

    Thanks for responding guys. I'm here at my parents home, waiting for more news.
    They're keeping him in overnight, so hopefully things will improve. Well it's the best place he can be I suppose.

    I wish it was that easy to start talking to him again. I think the next time I talk to him, it'll probably be beside his deathbed.
    I know he loves me deep down, and I'm sure he knows I love him.
  5. Sadeyes

    Sadeyes Staff Alumni

    Hope he is on the mend and so is your relationship with him
  6. Acy

    Acy Mama Bear - TLC, Common Sense Staff Member Safety & Support

    Sending good thoughts and wishes to you, your dad, and your family! :hug:
  7. NiceGuYKC

    NiceGuYKC Well-Known Member

    Please be okay dad.
  8. Terry

    Terry Antiquities Friend Staff Alumni

  9. NiceGuYKC

    NiceGuYKC Well-Known Member

    Thanks for all the well wishing. He's getting better.

    At first they thought he suffered a minor stroke, he hasn't thankfully. They're carrying out more tests on him.
    He got a good telling off over his diet, and not to overdo it when he goes for a walk.

    So thankfully I can move on from this, and go back to dealing with my other misery and pain.

    Again thanks for all the support.
  10. Terry

    Terry Antiquities Friend Staff Alumni

    Glad to hear he's on the mend, but take this as a warning; it's never too soon to heal a breach especially with loved ones.
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