my friend has planned his method.

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Khloe, Oct 18, 2010.

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  1. Khloe

    Khloe Well-Known Member

    my friend has just told me he's suicidal again. not only that, but he's planned with another one of his friends to jump together, end both their lives together. :(
    I feel absalutely distraught. what am i meant to say?
    when he told me, i snapped and said "i hate her" refering to the girl he's planned this with. I just think its selfish, fair enough she may have issues of her own.. but to include my friend in this!!

    Ahhh :(
  2. may71

    may71 Well-Known Member

    wow, sorry this is going on. can you talk him out of it?

    maybe you could call a crisis line yourself, maybe they would have something to say?
  3. wheredoigo

    wheredoigo Member

    Invite him over and lock him in your house, I know thats happened to me before.
  4. may71

    may71 Well-Known Member

    yeah, so there is the issue of trying to help him, but also dealing with this yourself!

    do you know anything about this girl?
  5. Khloe

    Khloe Well-Known Member

    Just that she's alot younger and very suicidal, also on drugs.
  6. may71

    may71 Well-Known Member

    i don't know the best way to go about this.

    it could be that she could be persuaded not to bring him along on this. i don't know what type of person she is.

    have you thought about calling the suicide line?
  7. Madam Mim

    Madam Mim Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry that you have to deal with this. You need to be there for him now, let him see that he needs to live. It's worth calling one of the helplines for advice, as you shouldn't have to deal with this on your own.

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