Please leave your personal opinions out on whether or not you agree with abortions. My GF is apparently pregnant. I won't know for sure until we go to the ER on Monday, but her piss test came up positive. She's on the depo shot and birth control, so I have no idea how this could have happened. She just got an abortion recently from her ex that accidentally knocked her up. She initially agreed that if we ever had an accident and got pregnant, she would do the same and abort it. She's now refusing to do anything and wants to raise it for adoption. For those who don't know me, I've been here a very long time. I've come from hell and back and have made tremendous progress in my life. I've basically been on my feet and have been pursuing a career and haven't been happier. I love the girl, but this is tearing me apart. I can't handle having a child of my own that I'll never get to meet or know. It's screwing me with mentally. I get that I'm partially to blame. I initially used protection, but she convinced me that it was virtually impossible to get pregnant with all the shots and birth control stuff she was on. I hate not using protection, but we eventually started going without it. We had 1 pregnancy scare a month ago, but it was false. We both agreed to start using protection, but somewhere along the lines that just didn't happen. I get that I'm responsible. I really don't want to hear how I am to blame, etc. Yes, I do understand it is HER choice on what to do with her body. What I want to know is... What do I do? I'm so upset!