How do I cope with everything she has told me? It started when she was 5 years old, just the touching and then when she was 9 it went all the way. He would let his friends join in. She said it was the normal thing for kids around her area. He got her pregnant at 11 but she miscarried and then finally she told on him and he went to jail. However he's coming out next week. I think this is why she is wanting to commit suicide. She must be petrified. She hates that I know so much about her. I'm scared she will end up hating me. It's so hard to get my head around because I had a great childhood up until I was around 13. How can you get over something like this? I know the scars will never go away. Time doesn't seem to be a healer either. So what's left?