I'm bisexual, just recently came out to my husband, after 10 years of marriage. Basically I just wanted to make it clear as I grew tired of his homophobic remarks behind the backs of some of my friends.
Now he's saying that he feels sorry for me that I got unwell (he thinks everyone who's not heterosexual is sick), and that he is going to cure me by hahving sex with him. I said this is not an illness and that I have always been bi, and even if there was cure I wouldn't want one.
He said that me admitting to be bi means that I've been lying to him for ten years. For me it means the end of this marriage unless he stops saying I'm ill and can be cured.
Feeling so upset, angry and disappointed now...
Now he's saying that he feels sorry for me that I got unwell (he thinks everyone who's not heterosexual is sick), and that he is going to cure me by hahving sex with him. I said this is not an illness and that I have always been bi, and even if there was cure I wouldn't want one.
He said that me admitting to be bi means that I've been lying to him for ten years. For me it means the end of this marriage unless he stops saying I'm ill and can be cured.
Feeling so upset, angry and disappointed now...
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