Last summer I found out my mum got raped when she was about 14.. Suddenly all the odd things she's done and said make sense it's an odd feeling, when all the pieces fall into place you know what I mean? it's like her whole life has been shaped by that. I still don't know very much about it, just that he was about 6-7 years older than her and that they met at a party or something. still I can't really imagine my mum getting raped..