My nan

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by Dance4Life, Mar 27, 2009.

  1. Dance4Life

    Dance4Life Member

    My nan died the week before Christmas '08. She was my world, to say the least. I was closer to her than anyone in my life. I lived with her last year for 6 months, and when I was younger, because my mom and I didn't get on living together. So I lived with my nan until I got my own place. And now she's gone. She was brought to hospital a week and a half before christmas but she wasn't too sick, she was ok. I stayed over at the hospital with some of my family almost the whole time but they had to sedate my nan to help her fight the infection. Her diabetes made the infection she had shut down her organs. She died just when I left the hospital to change my clothes. I wasn't even with her. I haven't reeally talked much about it since the funeral to anyone, not even my girlfriend who was also close to her, because I'm afraid if i do I'll realize she's not coming back. And I don't know how to cope with that.
     
  2. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    :hug: Sorrry for your loss. As you know we both had quite a similar relationship with our Nan's so I understand how you are feeling. If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to pm me :hug:
     
  3. Dance4Life

    Dance4Life Member

    Thank you x
     
  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    I'm so sorry for your loss :hug:
     
  5. shazzer

    shazzer Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your nan :hug: