A really sweet member of SF (ZasuArt) told me how I can get some more self-esteem. She told me to write this down: "Just because someone calls me a mean name, doesn't mean that I AM what they call me. If I call someone a unicorn or a fly fisherman or a hippopotumus, that does not make them what I call them. This same rule also applies to others. What I REALLY am: ..." And then I had to put some positive qualities behind it. Hmmm... what I really am? That is quite difficult for me to say... But even though it is still difficult, I wanted to show you all that I am working on it! So that is why I post this here so when I know something positive about myself I will add it here. Well, my first thing: What I REALLY am: smart! I just got my Dutch, English and Economics exams back and I got A+'s! I am so happy and a little proud too And the second and third came from ZasuArt: Thank you!! You really made my day!!