My rapist added me on Facebook

Discussion in 'Rape and Abuse' started by 880088, May 10, 2015.

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  1. 880088

    880088 Member

    I accepted. Why do I do this? He caused me to live in fear for the past 2 years. He broke me. Is it because I still blame myself for what happened? Do I feel the need to apologize for even thinking of him this way? I just wish this could be over.

    I wish I could disappear. I don't know why I can't stop causing problems.
     
    880088, May 10, 2015
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  2. Dewonderland

    Dewonderland Well-Known Member

    I will tell you the obvious.

    Refuse it.

    You don't have to face it frontline just delete him.

    It clearly makes you feel ashamed don't add this to what you've already been through.

    I know way too often our rapist is also someone in our entourage ... sometimes close circle.

    I feel super down now. I have no advice to give on being strong, but I believe, inside yourself you know what you have to do.
    Be honest with you and do what you know should be done. Against everything maybe.

    Keep breathing.

    Take care
     
    Dewonderland, May 10, 2015
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  3. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I could not have said it better myself. Delete him and forget about him even adding you. What he was thinking I do not know but you need to delete his friend request and try to move on from this as a bump in the road, :hugs:
     
    Petal, May 11, 2015
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