And made us really, really scared today. :sad: I kind of mentioned it in another thread, but wanted to put more detail. During the course of a FB conversation with my sister, I ended up admitting that I had given her number to our aunt in case of emergency while our aunt went to deal with the last of her mom's stuff. I admit, I should have asked first. Still. The reaction was way out of proportion! :blink: Her boyfriend D. sent me a FB message that was really threatening about how it's his family plan and really his phone number, and don't dare give it out again without their permission or he'll block my number from ever calling/texting my sister again, and if I have a problem, he can "come over and talk to me face to face." And I'm just like... wtf? I mean, I know he doesn't like our aunt, but...still. WTF? So I had enough of that, so I blocked him on Facebook. So he texts me, apparently just to bully/intimidate me some more? And calls me pathetic and a leech, and just makes fun of everything he can, and I'm kind of thinking at that point he's just pathetic...'cause he's 30 years old and got fired from his last job...for being an intimidating douche on company property, actually, and had to ask his mom for rent money a couple months ago...and -I'm- the leech? Except then he threatens to tell my parents I'm bisexual. And that he will, in fact, tell them as soon as they get home from vacation. Which...I was just mad before, but that actually gave me a panic attack. :nerves: But I'm just like yeah whatever, I was planning on telling them anyway [like preemptive strike]. And um...then he ended up telling me to shut my face and "stop dressing like a circus freak" or basically he was going to come over and punch me in the mouth. :cry: At which point, I called the non-emergency police number, showed the cop who showed up the texts, and he called D. and gave him a warning and said that if he calls or texts me at all, he will be cited for phone harassment. :grr: But really...I'm freaking out right now. I feel like this stupid bully has just torn away my entire family. He's definitely torn away my sister. I know she's taking his side again. And I can't help but feel that he's been looking for a way to get me blocked because he knows I have never liked him and that if he does something really effed up and abusive, my sister will come to me. So it's like he's isolating her and trying to stop her, and it sucks. But also--I'm still dependent on my parents to some extent. And they are VERY religious. And VERY intolerant/homophobic. So...I'm pretty sure they are going to disown me. I mean, I'll hope for the best, but I'm basically pretty sure they will. And for what? WHY does he feel the need to destroy my life? Because he can? All he does is make himself look like a total jackass. But it's not like it makes my life un-ruined. What I was going to try to do was find ways to get some money saved up, get my license, and move to my bf's across the country. But I mean...what am I supposed to do if I do get disowned? Hitchhike? He doesn't have the money to help like that. And he shouldn't have to. Just...so frustrated. SO TIRED of this stupid guy intimidating me and threatening me all the time because he's done it before too, just not to this...extent. Wish he'd just fall in the Marianas Trench or something.