This may seem like a minor issue to you, but it's important to me. She doesnt. AFTER ALL I AM A 43 YEAR OLD MALE. I SHOULDn't BE INVOLVED IN SUCH CHILDISH THINGS. AND WE DONT HAVE THE MONEY ANYWAYS!!! NOW THAT MY DAMNED ELECTRONIC DRUMKIT HAS BROKEN, (AT LEAST IT WAS ONLY A RENTAL), SHE WONT SUPPORT ME ON GETTING ANOTHER KIT. I don't know....maybe I should have never gotten back together with her. My ex girlfriend supported my music and she would have said, we will find a way. Folks, I AM A MEMBER OF A CHURCH PRAISE TEAM. PEOPLE GET INSPIRED BY THE MUSIC I AND THE OTHER MEMBERS CREATE!!!! MY SKILLS AS A DRUMMER WERE A DIRECT GIFT FROM GOD AND I HAVE ALWAYS FELT THAT. NOW.......NOW.....NOW WHEN I AM ABLE AFTER 30 YEARS, OF PLAYING MUSIC, TO BE ABLE TO GIVE THAT BACK, AND TO LET GOD WORK THRU ME, NOW, WHEN I NEED TO BE ABLE TO PRACTICE, AND I REALLY NEED TO GET THOSE DRUMS, SHE...SAYS NO!!!!!!! NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!???????????? DAMN IT!!!!!!!!!