We are only responsible for ourselves. If someone is a narcissistic jerk, that's their problem and they need to figure it out, but most never do. Which is why you will see them moving every few months or years, relationship and job hopping. My dad, who has always been that way, found it right up his ally to be a traveling salesman because he could have the best of both worlds... be promiscuous with strange women and then come home on weekends to be with my mom and us kids. I noticed that in the relationships I had with the narcs I let into my life, both were also like that and they only lived with me for three months because that's how long it took for me to realize that they were really crappy/messed up people and I kicked them to the curb.
We can't fix anyone else but our own selves. This self-isolating thing has been really hard for a lot of people because it's unnatural to be alone for long stretches of time; but on the other hand, it gives people an opportunity to spend time with themselves and work on themselves, alone. That's a challenge for anyone who is on the narcissist spectrum, because they think they need attention from an outside source, when in reality they just need to be able to be introspective about how they can improve and become a better human being with a strong character and ethics, not someone who backstabs, lies, twists words, steals, and only thinks opportunistically = what's in it for me. The best people I admire, do things for other people just because it's the right thing to do, not because they are going to benefit in some way. And they don't go around patting themselves on the back and telling everyone about the good things they've done, they just quietly do it without fanfare.
