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Need advice, please


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I've shared a little of my abuse history with my boyfriend.
I'm afraid to share more. Im worried he will reject me. And, I alot of guilt and shame about some of the stuff that happened.


woman overboard
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You don't have to tell him everything at once. Maybe just tell him that there is more, but that you're not ready to share it.

*hug I'm sad to hear you have shame about things that were done *to* you. I hope you can work on that in therapy maybe. You don't deserve that.


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You don't have to tell him everything all at once. Like Sinking_ship suggested, let him know that there's more but that you aren't quite ready to share. Hopefully he'll be kind and patient about it.

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