My girlfriend recently told me that for the last 2 years she's been sleeping with her mom's boyfriend whenever she goes back home to stay. We've been together a while now but soon it's going to be the first time she goes home to stay since we've been dating, she says he won't stop trying even if he knows we're together and that she's slept with him while in every relationship she's been in. I told her I thought it was abuse (she was 16 when it started, it's legal age there) she says he's helped her a lot and that he'd never try if she said no. I feel horrible for asking this... But can I trust her? It'd kill me if she slept with him I can't stand the thought of that happening again but how can I trust her if she slept with him while sh was with someone she loved. Only the fact she admitted all this to me makes me think she wouldn't, but I still feel uneasy with the idea of her even being within the same city as him! :cry: also if it turns out she tries saying no but ends up sleeping with him then it is abuse and what the fuck do I do???