Hello, all I have a friend that struggles with both self harm and an eating disorder. She tells me that the cutting keeps her from falling into her eating disorder. I really care about her and it hurts me so much when she tells me she cut herself again. I really want to help. She gets very defensive and angry if I ask her to stop, and now she said she just won't tell me about it anymore so I won't bother her about it. I am at a loss here. I just don't know what to do. Can anyone give me some advice here? If you had a friend that really wanted to help, what would you want them to do? I was going to tell her that I just won't talk to her anymore if she doesn't stop, but that doesn't seem like something I would want to hear if I was in her situation.