I just beat a 72 hour involuntary hold in a psych ward but I'm about to face it again. I don't think I can win this time. They want me in for 'observation' due to major depressive disorder and are trying to upgrade it to psychotic depression. Anyway, I can't go. I need a way out. I'm a combat veteran who was held in a cage for nine months as an enemy of the state. I have a thing about being locked up against my will. Voluntary is out for two reasons: First, once there they can always extend it involuntarily. Second, there is a family crisis at the moment and I cannot be spared. It is a life or death situation concerning my wife of thirty years. I will not leave her. Suggestions please?