Hey everyone - I'm not entirely sure if this is the right place for me to come with this issue, but I've never dealt with this before and need advise from people who understand. Last month I married an absolutely wonderful man. However, there are some difficulties because he was previously married to a girl who committed suicide. They were only married for 5 months, and it wasn't a very good relationship. She had tried to kill herself on numerous occasions and also struggled with substance abuse. She finally did it last October, the day after my husband told her he wanted to separate. He was able to heal and move on from this, and in January of this year we started dating, and in May of this year, he proposed to me, and we got married a month ago. Unfortunately, some people, mostly friends of the former wife, have not been very accepting of me, and I'm constantly comparing myself to the former wife, trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong or need to do better so these people will not be upset by our love. Well Monday is the anniversary of her death. My husband wants to go to her hometown and visit her parents and pay respects at her gravesite. He has asked me to go with him and meet the parents. I'm really not sure how to feel about this. I guess it's his way of telling them everything is okay, but would they really want to meet me? I hope this post made sense.. I'm really confused and not sure how I should be feeling or acting. I'm just trying to be a supportive wife... Thanks in advance for your help.