I need some help understanding something, some time ago I was seeing someone who was abused by her husband 6 years ago. I was trying to en,ourage her to talk to someone to vent out, but she refused, she felt if she did it would mark her or something, she would not even tell me any details. Bellow all of that hate and shame I saw such a good person in her, she was my fallen angel, I just cpuld not stay with her in her nights she was almost u.social, she was at the bottom of a well and I could do nothing to pull her out, its as if she did not want out ot feel she was worthy of being pulled out. i just wish to know why does one turn out like this? Even when she sees and knows thete are those that will help.