Never had gf!

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by JayKay, Jul 19, 2014.

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  1. JayKay

    JayKay New Member

    Feel lonely. Never had a gf or partner. Never experienced the boy girl thing. Can't make friends.

    What's the point of life I ask myself if I can't get enjoyment from it?

    Why try and tick over day by day?
  2. Concrete_Angel

    Concrete_Angel Forum Buddy

    Hello JayKay firstly welcome to the forum. Have you ever thought about joining clubs that your interested in, it may get you socializing more if you don't socialise enough already? There must be something that means a lot to you idk like family etc.
  3. Witty_Sarcasm

    Witty_Sarcasm Eccentric writer, general weirdo, heedless heathen

    I'm in the same boat as you, except I never had a boyfriend, and don't really have any friends outside of this site. Is there anything that you enjoy doing? Maybe you can find some people who have similar interests to you, and start off from there.
  4. randomguy9

    randomguy9 Put's the "Pro" in Profanity

    I am in the same boat... unfortunately with my issues I am not ready to look.

    As far as socializing... like anything else it is a learned skill. I know first hand how hard it is to be around people who learned it younger than me, while I am struggling to figure it out.

    There are some therapies that focus on social skills. Might be worth looking into.

    I had to cut ties with my community a while back... still haven't fully replaced it but the progress made shows that it can happen.
  5. colt45

    colt45 Well-Known Member

    I have not had a gf in a long time
    Not all it is cracked up to be
    There are time I feel flustered with being lonely
  6. Angstrom

    Angstrom New Member

    I'm in the same boat, too. Even though I have had "girlfriends," I have rarely ever even held hands, and never actually even kissed a girl.

    Anxiety rules all my emotions, so whenever I try to experience or express joy, I become anxious instead, which makes even friendships difficult.

    I have always had odd sexual preoccupations, there are probably very few women that would either share or empathize with my philosophy.

    Perchance I could lay myself bare, hope for the best, and not fear the sting of rejection, but first I would need to be a friend.
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