Only now in my late twenty's have I become comfortable with myself physically so dating, sex, a girlfriend never really crossed my mind until now. It recently dawned on me that I never even kissed a girl, never even attempted to, and that is kind of sad in a sense. I don't consider myself a sexual person even now, they say the average man thinks about sex every 12 seconds, I really think for me that number is significantly lower. But again it dawned Ion me that I never been in a relationship and I am lonely. I joined this hook-up site and was thinking of going through with it (assuming its legit you can never be to sure online), but I have reached a point where I want something more romantically and/or sexually but honestly have no idea how to go around to finding it.