Hello! I found this forum, and in my life at present i am in a situation where whichever way i go, someone dear to me will get very hurt. So i keep thinking, perhaps its me who should go, as it were. I am fast approaching a decision time, and, i just can't make the decision. somehow it seems wrong to join when i am so lost. If i get through this i'd like to help others. Anyway................Hi there to all!