No cake for me thanks (not a joke)....

[Mushy-pea]

Hi guys and girls. Good forum you have here. I have decided to use the word "cake" to represent "sex" temporarily. I mean, they're quite similar aren't they? Anyway, I have had suicidal thoughts on numerous occasions over the last five years or so. There have been two main reasons for these thoughts:

1. Not getting things I would like to get (i.e. cake, a decent job, a bit of peace etc) and getting miserable about it.

2. A recurring pattern of thoughts which suggest that life is pointless, meaningless and often miserable or painful for lots of people. The conclusion I then reach is that even if I do get some cake it will eventually lead to me forcing a new person through the same load of pointless nonsense that I'm moaning about now (i.e. life).

Recently I decided to try a different approach. Instead of being suicidal, why not be celibate? Then I can live in accordance with my principles and never risk inflicting life on some poor soul. This stance might be somthing to hold on to when I'm feeling miserable. Does anyone else feel like trying this idea? Thanks for reading.

Steven.

 

[Lady Byron]

That's really weird, I have never thought of sex as cake. I hate cake. It's horrible. Does that mean that I won't like sex either? (just wondering) What exactly does celibate mean??? I don't have a dictionary or I would look it up. Don't you need a partner though? I suspect it would get kind of lonely. Especially without your "cake." I have never had "cake." Does that mean I'm a celibate person??? Urgh, I'm confused!!! Is that how you even use that word in a sentence???? I am now even more confused than I was an hour ago... damn.

 

[ruiner]

Hi guys and girls. Good forum you have here. I have decided to use the word "cake" to represent "sex" temporarily. I mean, they're quite similar aren't they? Anyway, I have had suicidal thoughts on numerous occasions over the last five years or so. There have been two main reasons for these thoughts:

1. Not getting things I would like to get (i.e. cake, a decent job, a bit of peace etc) and getting miserable about it.

2. A recurring pattern of thoughts which suggest that life is pointless, meaningless and often miserable or painful for lots of people. The conclusion I then reach is that even if I do get some cake it will eventually lead to me forcing a new person through the same load of pointless nonsense that I'm moaning about now (i.e. life).

Recently I decided to try a different approach. Instead of being suicidal, why not be celibate? Then I can live in accordance with my principles and never risk inflicting life on some poor soul. This stance might be somthing to hold on to when I'm feeling miserable. Does anyone else feel like trying this idea? Thanks for reading.

Steven.

If you can do it then I wish you luck. I however, have a huge cake problem on so many levels and am considering offing myself. I can't go on without it, just not possible. And the people on this forum(whom I love) cannot relate to me either. If no one goes through this but me then how would the treatments exist?

(and before anyone jumps to the idea that I am just 'cakey' all the time like normal young adults, read my previous posts)

 

[Sadeyes]

that does change the meaning of the phrase, 'let them eat cake'...cheeky i know but i could not resist...and if withholding from yourself brings you a greater understand, then it is great...i took the same route for a few yrs to figure out what sensuality and sexuality was about for me...it really helped me understand what i was communicating and what i want in a relationship...hope you find something valuable in it yourself...big hugs, Jackie