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Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Poirot, May 11, 2008.

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  1. Poirot

    Poirot Guest

    am i the only one in the world with no friends? the only people in my life is my parents and we dont get on. so basically i have noone to talk to. i dont want to be alone im scared of people and socialising. i know im wierd, but am i the only one?
     
  2. suicidal maniac

    suicidal maniac Well-Known Member

    I'm the same way. I'm an only child and friends always kind off found me, but for the past 3 years I haven't had anybody.
    I don't think you can find friends it just happens.
     
  3. Obsessive

    Obsessive Well-Known Member

    No friends here. How can people stand to be around me when I can't even stand to be around myself? =/

    Really sucks being stuck with the genes and disorders you get. No do-overs, just play the game out. I dream of a day when genetical engineering becomes such a big thing that it's even deemed unethical for someone to just be born through natural birth.
     
  4. TheBLA

    TheBLA Well-Known Member

    Far from it, there's lot of people (here as well), that are just like you.

    In fact, I feel many times just like you, the only one with no friends and all my crappy problems. Its because everyone else I know has friends, is much better than me, I am the only abnormal one.

    But you are not alone, there's lots of people on this forum that share your thoughts, feelings, situation and can sympathize with you 100%, myself included. :smile:
     
  5. xenflyz

    xenflyz Member

    You're not alone. I had no friends all my life, I'm 19 now and things aren't looking good.
     
  6. perry_mason

    perry_mason Well-Known Member

    no friends here either. i miss the few people that i liked but i realize they are better off without me because i only ended up hurting them. i will admit it is lonely without anybody though
     
  7. dazzle11215

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  8. klodo

    klodo Well-Known Member

    I have only one friend but I don't see her very often so its hard to get by. Every day is a struggle and I don't know if I will survive. I keep thinking that I must be evil or I would not be in this mess.I even think I must have been a Nazi or murderer in a previous life and now I am being punished.I used to pray alot but nothing happened so God don't exist or is a complete bastard.Everyone thinks this only happens in your twenties but I am 40 and its never been any different.
     
  9. Well, I have some friends, but with literally a week left of college, as it's the final year, and us all going off to different universities, it's safe to say I'll be losing them. We'd drifted apart anyways with my constant absenteeism, but still, it's going to be interesting finding myself with no one, I'v always been pretty good with friends, but of late it's getting harder to make new ones.

    Anyways, if anyones near me - Nottingham/UK, then hey, I'll be your friend any day.
     
  10. bleach

    bleach Well-Known Member

    Hey.. pretty good link
     
  11. ZundertowZ

    ZundertowZ Well-Known Member

    im a only child who lost my bf, gf, and parents [ all fucked me over real good ] all in the past 3 months, i kinda wish i never was close to any1, then i wouldnt feel such pain. people always leave anyway!
     
  12. Emerald Hyperion

    Emerald Hyperion Not So Well-Known Member

    I'm 24 and was an only child. I have no absolutely no real friends whatsoever, except for one whom I've met here at the forum. The people I know are just annoying associates who either try to use me, insult me, or leave me in the cold or out of the loop all of the time.

    I struggled my whole life trying to socialize and always failed everytime, and people almost instantly take a disliking to me even though I never done anything to them to bring it about. Loneliness and being misunderstood has been the theme of my entire life and its never going to change.

    After awhile it hurts to know you can't really find anyone to confide in or trust, which can make one all the more distant.
     
  13. Mortem

    Mortem Well-Known Member

    Well, as can be seen above you're certainly not alone, and there's probably millions of people feeling that way.

    Personally I'm an introvert, which means I enjoy doing things on my own. Also bit of a hermit, so I'm one who is actually capable of enjoying this state. :cool:
     
  14. Fishman

    Fishman Guest

    You had a boyfriend and a girlfriend or you where a boyfriend to a girlfriend?
     
  15. Stranger1

    Stranger1 Forum Buddy & Antiquities Friend

    I can relate to what your saying. I have pushed away everyone I use to know. My thoughts were that they were only using me for any gain they could.
    I have turned to isolation. I have been holed up in my bedroom the last ten years. My therapist has me getting out a little more. She told me to gat a puppy so I have resposibilities. She said once I have attached my self to him that would be another positive she has me banking. By that I mean she has me putting positive things in sort of a bank. That way when I am having bad thoughts I can pull up the bank and recall a positive situation. Get a puppy they will be faithful to you. Good luck,
    Stranger1
     
  16. touglytobeloved

    touglytobeloved Well-Known Member

    I have only one friend at the moment, she is leaving in 2 weeks. Ill be completely alone. I used to have some friends, but since my surgery I have lost all of them. I mean, they are still my friends, but can you call someone a friend when you are listening him only by phone, or seeing him only once in 1-2 or 3 months?
     
  17. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni

    I'll be someone's friend :smile:
     
  18. Poirot

    Poirot Guest

    thanks for the link dazzle. And to everyone else here. At least im not alone in the way I feel, but i woulndnt wish it on anyone. Horrible.

    Mortem, my parents call me a hermit, and while like yourself I enjoy doing things on my own, I dont wanna be on my own completely. But i find it hard to socialise and trust.

    Man youve just desribed me too a tee. Same age too.
    I feel the older I am getting the worse it gets. And i dread birthdays like no other days. Im stuck at home alone when society says i should be out partying or something.
     
  19. Gunner12

    Gunner12 Well-Known Member

    I've got a suggestion.

    How about people on this site who live realtively close together organize a get together or something? So there will be some place to go to, someplace to go and meet people and make friends.
     
  20. Poirot

    Poirot Guest

    Good idea however Ive noticed the majority of people here live in america so its hard for me.
     
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