Hi
@sadhart - I’m sorry you feel so low. I think you are wonderful! Two years and seven months sober? That’s a
huge accomplishment!!
Life can have some really challenging times, as I’m sure you know. You are doing all you can to keep moving forward. I think that is great! Yes, things can trigger memories of bad times - absolutely. Perhaps you could regroup with a deep breath and acknowledge it
was a bad time, and you
are in better part of life now.
Problems are not a contest in which we measure if we have it better or worse than others. When we are hurting, it’s good to acknowledge it. You seem to doing all the right things - trying to do something decent for yourself is a biggie. And blam, you got more stressors instead of the relaxation you were seeking. That’s just unfair! I find that if I experience a lot of little (or big) sressors in close succession, I feel worn down. That’s a good time for me to be especially self-forgiving and kind to myself.
The landlord is not being especially helpful; it is not your fault. Some people and some organizations love to use red tape and procedures to stall on doing what they need to do. So frustrating when they do that! I expect that you will get it sorted even if the landlord is being difficult.
In these strained times, having the occasional day with some triggers and feeling overwhelmed is understandable. Please be good to yourself. You deserve it.