Due to my last relationship I find it hard to discuss personal issues with my new girlfriend as my last one used what I told her against me, she even said nobody could truly love me as I'm too much like my Dad but I hardly know the guy. Now she knows I'm starting to get over my depression and demons she is back in touch and will not give it a rest. I'm a bit worried if I told her to leave me alone in some rather unsavoury terms she'd be getting in contact with my new girlfriend sprouting lies about me etc. What is worse is that they work not far from eachother and this is a big problem because I'm dreading bumping into her now that I'm with this really lovely person. Everybody who I told about my ex too when I was with her warned me off her as they was concerned she was crazy and my God they were right. What would you do or say in this situation should it arise? I don't want to keep asking for help but I don't really have nobody to turn too as they won't listen properly. I'm losing bonds with my friends and the only real people I speak to other then my girlfriend is the people who greet me as I enter and leave the gym. I work from home and rarely go out anymore as I don't enjoy myself with people my own age as they bother me. My only real pleasure is going to watch my local football (soccer) team but in simple terms they don't play a match at home again this summer for a while yet. So I'm left here sitting to the walls when I'm not talking to my amazing girlfriend. My ex suggested I should go sit down the local graveyard at night and chat to the dead and some dead relatives who hated me as they'll have no choice but to hear me ramble on I might go and do that I'm that bored.