I just don't get it! Because I'm worried about someone other than this friend I must be in the wrong.... yes my mood is low, yes I was directed to this site by that friend to get help from others who struggle with mental health issues because telling me not to be silly didn't stop the tears. and now because it's helping I must be ignoring them because I've found someone who "understands me better" wtf?! Passive aggressive insults are still insulting!!