I've been seeing this boy for a couple of months now. This is only the second relationship I've ever been in. The first one was with a person I was really in love with, head over heels. So, here's the problem. I know I don't want to go back to that first person … I've gotten over her. But I know that I don't feel about this new boy the way I felt about the girl from before. I don't want to hurt his feelings cause I think he really loves me, but I don't want to lead him on if I don't have feelings for him.