I've been with this guy for 4 1/2 years we took a small break 2 years in and last year thought we were ready to get married. It was meant to be. However he text another girl 2 weeks before. He doesn't think it was cheating but it clearly was. They expressed emotional feelings no physical connection but that doesn't matter. When we were apart I was with others and he can't seems to get over it. We fight like any normal couple. However there are fights that we have not are much worse than any "normal" fight. One of which occurred yesterday on my birthday. Every single fight that we get into like this he jumps right to let's get a divorce. We haven't even been married and year and he's said lets get a divorce more time then I can count on all my fingers and toes. I'm tired of feeling so helpless. I fear everything I do with set him off. Ok I'm no easy person to get along with either. I am depressed and get overly emotional ALL THE TIME. But I know that. He acts like he never gets upset. This morning. He told me he text the girl whom almost ruined our relationship and then said he threw away his ring. I dont know what to do anymore. We are young. But I know he's the one. But can be truly be the one if he doesn't feel the same. Which I truly don't think he does. I know this sounds pretth petty but my whole life I've seen messed up relationships from my mother and my father has been in prison the whole duration of my life. I would never have married him if I had ever thought our relationship would end up like this. I just don't know what to do. Please help... My family lives a 48 hour car ride away and a 3 1/2 hour plane ride. I don't have anyone. I need help to make it through this in the right way.