I'm an observer of life. I've no goals, no desire to interact with the world around me. People are happy or sad, they live, they die, make friends, fall in love, most of the time I don't care, I simply observe these things. It's their world not mine. People tell me I should participate in life, I should fall in love, start a family, do something with worthwhile with my life. This would bring me the greatest happiness, but also the greatest sorrow I guess. I may be wrong, but I think most people are on this forum as a result of their participation with this world. At the end of my life, if people asked me what I did, I would say I did nothing, but I observed a great deal. Is this a life worth living? Is that fulfilling your potential, just watching the world go by? But what else should we do? So observer or participator, which are you?