I am obsessed with a neighbor who i had sexual relationship with jim a whi ago. We have boke up because he didn't want a Committed rrelationship but a casual one. Somewhere down the line i secretly fell in love with him and when he found out we broke all ties with each other and now hes moved on but im still stuc fantasizing a bout him and jealous of the friendships he has with my neighbor and his girlfriend. I can't forgive myself for ever liking him and it hurts a lot. Is this common that sometimes people get hurt like that?