oh no! D:

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by hmmm, Mar 13, 2011.

  1. hmmm

    hmmm Member

    ive been dating someone now for a litto bit...,
    && i fell hard in a way;
    he was there for me through my previous brake-up && threw shit with my mom,
    he's a flirt which i dont like at all,
    (im a taad jelous i guess you could say)
    He tells me he loves me everyday all day pretty much (&& im the first girl he's told "I love you" to).
    I on the other hand i have never said "I love you" to him or anyone && he knows im not going to say it...,
    but back to the topic;
    I dont want to talk to him about his flirting && upset him or seem controlling in anyway... or even scare him off.
    grrr this is a sticky situation for me, advice please? :/
  2. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    open conversation is necessary for any relationship to last. You should bring up your concerns so he knows okay things won't change unless they are adressed hugs
  3. Pécheur

    Pécheur Account Closed

    if you keep your frustrations to yourself they come out in other things, you may get 'narky' with him. it's best to be open and say look, you know how much i like you.. i'm worried you like someone else.
    sounds like you need some reassurance.
    keeping your concerns to yourself could put a strain on your relationship.

    :hug: hope it gets sorted.