Oh well

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Richard 007, Jun 16, 2012.

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  1. Richard 007

    Richard 007 Active Member

    It's all gone to shit , looks like my wife will be taking my children and my reason for living goes with them .

    The end .
  2. nessa456

    nessa456 Active Member

    I'm very sorry to hear that

    If you want to talk about it more you are welcome to pm me or talk on MSN - I find talking can help
  3. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry richard.......... but that doesn't mean it's the end for you
    the kids will still need you and want you in their lives

    You can get joint custody, or a percentage of custody and/or visitation rights..whatever works for you
    I suggest talking to your lawyer if your wife's not agreeable to what you want

    my ex had every other weekend and one night a week at his place with the kids..
    this worked ok for everyone involved but each situation is different

    dont give up ...there is still a life for you ....it doesn't happen overnight but I believe it will if you hold on :hug:
  4. pickwithaustin

    pickwithaustin Staff Alumni

    Did you follow some of the suggestions you have been given? Have you documented what is going on so that, as IV said above, you can go after joint custody? You have as many rights as she does with the kids, so it's time to stand up and take charge and take that control mechanism away from her.
  5. Iain

    Iain Well-Known Member

    Richard, Ive posted a private message to you. But here in the public sphere I want to join the other voices out here who want to help you get through.
  6. StevenSiew

    StevenSiew Well-Known Member

    Sometimes in the morning, I wonder why I wake up. It seems that there is no reason to wake up. The world can take care of itself. It would have been better if I sleep and never wake up. No one would miss me. It's nice being asleep because it makes me realise that having desires is not normal. It's when you have no desire that you are happiest. Happiest in the sense of being least unhappy.
  7. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    Richard How are you doing? bit concerned about you....:hug:
  8. ParanoidGirl

    ParanoidGirl Member

    Rich honey,

    You okay ???

    Caroline x
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