Hi - I have my 21 year old living at home (going to college). He has an 18 year old girlfriend (who I also love). Together, they are like oil and vinegar. They argue all the time and loudly. I internalize and somehow end up depressed after their loud arguments. I am a single mom who also has my mom living with me. A lot of stress, divorced for years, no dating and I work from home. I am in crisis. I know the logical answers but please feel free to provide these suggestions again. Thanks!