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On My Mind

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I finally let go of my ex last summer.
Well, I tried.
I've known him for almost 6 years.....

Does anyone know how to really get over someone?

Someone who you've had such an emotional connection with?


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It's really hard to lose someone you love, anyway you lose them. You are now, probably, grieving for what you had with him, and that is allowed, ok, and normal.

I suggest talking to someone (maybe a therapist), or writing it all down and try not to keep it bottled inside. Bottling it up will only hurt more in the long run.

Also, maybe try and get out and meet people, maybe take up some hobbies.

Do NOT just get with someone just to try and heal the hurt, or try to find the same thing with someone else. Try not to get into another relationship until you are over this guy.

Good luck, it can be done, just keep talking about it,

Take care

jane doe

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i agree with scum, i think you should keep yourself busy and if you want to cry do it,it´s allowed, it will help you to get over it to let all the sadness away. take care and luck
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If u find a way to get past the pain, please let me know the secret. I don't feel like I'll ever get over my ex. :sad:
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