I like to think of it in this way. Years Married; 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 11,12,13,14,15,16,17,18,19, Oops 21 Today is our 21st anniversay, and I was going to post something nasty about what she did yesterday, but it wasnt her fault. And I prolly misunderstood. The fact of the matter is, she took me back and continues to put up with my sorry arse. The love may not be the same as it used to be, but perhaps it is a bit stronger these days. Definately more mature. I have no plans, as I have no money. I will pick her up some flowers afterwork, but that will be about it.