I’m just over the relationship at this point, not that I want it to be, I’m just exhausted and don’t know what else to do. I don’t want to end things and I don’t want my 8-year-old daughter to be crushed but I’m at a dead end and don’t think I have many options left unless I want to continue to go through the same things on a weekly basis. But I don’t deserve that, I want to be happy and with someone who I feel like respects and loves me. I’ve been with this man for almost two years now and I don’t think I can take it much more. I keep asking him to be consistent, honest, and to stop with the double standards but it literally goes nowhere. We literally just had a fight this past weekend about him doing things that he throws a fit about me doing and we both agreed to try and be better to move forward in our relationship. Well come Tuesday night he done the exact same thing that we talked about not doing I was hurt and wasn’t very talkative the following day, mind you after I was upset he continued to do the same thing. I get home yesterday, and you can clearly tell he’s upset which he later informs me that it was because I asked if he needed space since he left me on read, I just assumed that meant he wanted the space because I clearly wasn’t being very talkative. To which then he just starts ignoring me even after we just talked about that to, I finally went to ask if he wanted to talk about things and he says no its pointless you’re not going to listen anyway. Which is even more confusing because I’m not even sure how this became a problem about me instead of addressing the behavior that he continues to do even though he expects me not to do any of that. In these situations, he believes that I’m not listening while he unloads everything he has a problem with and expects me to wait until he says everything he possibly can without me having any kind of input, which I don’t find fair either. He says its because he will forget what he’s saying but I just don’t really feel like that’s the case because I feel like if he cared then he would want to solve it and hear what I have to say as well. Instead of just telling me I’m not listening because I’m just trying to fit my feelings in when he pauses. Theirs so much more that has happened in this relationship and I clearly have a problem with sticking/enforcing boundaries and I in no way shape or form claim to be perfect, but I just feel as if something has to give no matter how much I love him. I just really needed to vent because I don’t really have anyone to talk to and I feel like my family is tired of hearing it.