panic.

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by SmilePretty, Aug 4, 2009.

  1. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    i got my roommate assignments yesterday
    i was so excited
    but then i found out that they requested to room together because they are best friends and have gone to school together for 4 years. :sad:

    i dont want to be a third wheel. i dont want to feel like i dont belong there, and left out. i know i dont know what will happen, they may like me. but i had a huge panic attack last night because of this.

    why would they put me in a room with two people who requested each other because they are best friends? why would they do that to me? i know it wasnt on purpose. but wtf. its really upsetting me.

    PLUS

    they are both acting majors who like science fiction and starwars :starwars: and i havent got anything against that but it doesnt fit with me. idk maybe i am over reacting. :sad: i am on the verge of crying right now so i am going to stop typing this.
     
  2. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Don't cry. :sad:

    Even if they have already known eachother a long time, you could still become good friends with them?

    If you dislike the whole idea,is there any way you can request to be moved? :hug:
     
  3. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    you have to wait three weeks after move in day
    and then there is mediation
    and then if the problem persists you can move.
     
  4. ashes_away

    ashes_away Well-Known Member

    if they get to know what a wonderful person you are,they will not only like you,they will love you.:smile:
     
  5. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Oh :(

    I guess,you'll have to make the best of the situation. Were they friendly to you so far?(if I remember correctly, you were talking to them last night :unsure: ) ,they might not make you feel like you don't belong. I'd say give them a chance?
     
  6. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    one hasnt even added me on facebook yet
    the other i talked to last night....but idk it wasnt the best convo
    i was asking all of the questions, and lots of silences etc
     
  7. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    :agreed:

    They'll love you :)
     
  8. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    idk i didnt get the friendly vibe from her.
     
  9. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    When will ye be meeting? :hug:
     
  10. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    august 28th
     
  11. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Try and stay calm til then hun, it might not turn out to be as bad as you expect :hug:
     
  12. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    =[ i keep telling myself that.
     
  13. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Good, stay strong hun.. It will be ok :D :hug: I'm sure youll make lots of other friends at college too!
     
  14. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni