My partner was seriously abused by her ex husband
I have an intense desire to kill him
I know this will only satisfy me not her as he is now out of her life - Claire says let it go as she has - she also says what use would I be serving mandatory life
I cope with these intense feeling with self harm
I know I am over protective towards her but she does have freedom to see her friends & family unlike she had with her ex
He controlled her not allowing her to see friends & family & those rare times they did come round he made her wear clothing which covered her bruising and if any bruising was noticed then it was accidental bruising on her part
Claire has told me a lot of her ordeal & I am aware there is more which she has blocked out - some of what she has told me is horrific - BDSM/rape etc. I wont go into specifics but suffice to say I want to kill him
Does anyone else in a similar situation to mine have these intense feeling towards their partners abusive ex?
:feedback: greatfully appreciated
Thanks
I have an intense desire to kill him
I know this will only satisfy me not her as he is now out of her life - Claire says let it go as she has - she also says what use would I be serving mandatory life
I cope with these intense feeling with self harm
I know I am over protective towards her but she does have freedom to see her friends & family unlike she had with her ex
He controlled her not allowing her to see friends & family & those rare times they did come round he made her wear clothing which covered her bruising and if any bruising was noticed then it was accidental bruising on her part
Claire has told me a lot of her ordeal & I am aware there is more which she has blocked out - some of what she has told me is horrific - BDSM/rape etc. I wont go into specifics but suffice to say I want to kill him
Does anyone else in a similar situation to mine have these intense feeling towards their partners abusive ex?
:feedback: greatfully appreciated
Thanks