They look at a person and see what's on the outside and don't understand what physical health problems are causing everything, how that person actually feels irritation wise... They judge based on looks, or they make snap judgements about preconcivied notions. They see one trait in you and they think that's what you're all about. If your looking for something you'll usually be sure to find it Everyone has every just about every trait to which degree is the determining factor. That's partially why I wish I'd lost a leg instead of feeling the way I do now, people give you sympathy/empathy because they have more of an understanding of what's wrong. I'm sure losing a leg is extremely/unbelieveable painful but it's a short last paining it doesn't drag on for months, years, or even the rest of your life.. While one could argue yes you have the pain of not having a leg you aren't in phyiscal pain from it, that's all im saying.